What is Recovery?
Recovery is an intensely personal experience that is hard to define in a general way. There are multiple pathways to
recovery including: treatment, faith/spirituality, natural, criminal justice interventions, support from individuals,
and/or family, mutual assistance groups and recovery community centers. Everyone’s journey results in their own
unique experience of recovery. Therefore, recovery has many definitions and it is hard to agree on a single one. It goes
beyond abstinence alone to include a full re-engagement in their lives and community based on hope, resilience, health
and wellness, and includes family, friends and community. Recovery starts when a person begins to make better
choices about his or her physical, mental and spiritual health.
Find the Support You Need No Matter Where You Are!
There are many different recovery support groups held within the Maplewood Community Center and throughout
Garden City on various days of the week. Download a list of current meetings here: RECOVERY SUPPORT GROUPS
There are also recovery support groups all across the United States and often in other countries.
Below is the national information for various recovery support organizations.
〉 Alcoholics Anonymous
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a fellowship of men and women who
share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may
solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.
The goal of AA is to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety.
Visit www.aa.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 877-337-0611
〉 Narcotics Anonymous
Narcotics Anonymous (NA) is a nonprofit fellowship of men and women
whom drugs have become a major problem. The vision of NA is that every
addict in the world has the chance to experience this message in his or her
own language and culture and find the opportunity for new way of life.
Visit www.na.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 877-338-1188
Al-Anon Family Groups are mutual support programs for people whose lives
have been affected by someone else’s drinking. Alateen is also a part of the Al-Anon
Family Groups. It is a fellowship of young people (mostly teenagers) whose lives have
been affected by someone else’s drinking.
Visit www.al-anon.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 800-344-2666
The Nar-Anon Family Groups is primarily for those who know or have known a feeling
of desperation concerning the addiction problem of someone very near to them.
Visit www.nar-anon.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 800-477-6291
〉 Refuge Recovery
Refuge Recovery is a mindfulness based addiction recovery community that
practices and utilizes Buddhist philosophy as a foundation of the recovery
process. Those struggling with any form of addiction greatly benefit when
they are able to understand the suffering that addiction has created while
developing compassion for the pain they have experienced.
Visit www.refugerecovery.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 323-454-3145
〉 Gamblers Anonymous
Gamblers Anonymous (GA) is a fellowship of men and women who share their
experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common
problem and help others to recover from a gambling problem.
Visit www.gamblersanonymous.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 855-222-5542
〉 Overeaters Anonymous
Overeaters Anonymous (OA) is a fellowship of those who through shared
experiences, learn to gain control of their compulsive eating habits.
We welcome everyone who wants to stop eating compulsively.
Visit www.oa.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 505-891-2664
〉 Taking Off Pounds Sensibly
Taking Off Pounds Sensibly (T.O.P.S) is a nonprofit, noncommercial network
of weight loss support groups and wellness education organization. It offers
tools and programs for healthy living and weight management.
Visit www.tops.org for more information or to find a meeting.
Or call the Hot line at 414-482-4620
Spring Break 2018
Ah, spring break! For many youth it is a time to forget about all of the stresses of school…at least for a week anyway! For some, it will be a
time to sleep in and just hang around with friends and family. For others, this may be the first trip they are taking away from home without
No matter what your plans are for this spring break, it is a great opportunity to talk to the teens in your life about underage drinking and your expectations for their behavior. Here are a few tips from the Safe and Sober Parents website for this spring break:
- Is your teen planning to go on a trip with a friend’s family or a large group without you? Have a straightforward conversation with the supervising adults to let them know your stance on alcohol. Confirm that absolutely no alcohol will be provided or given to your teen, under any circumstances.
- Use the extra break time as an opportunity to begin an ongoing conversation with your teen about alcohol. Find some tips for beginning that all-important conversation, and for how to set boundaries regarding alcohol use for your teens on the Safe and Sober Parents website: safeandsoberparents.com.
- For many teens and young adults, spring break is a time to let go of school and home stress. In preparation for the break, talk to your teen about healthy ways to manage stress. By finding an outlet like physical exercise, conversation or journaling, your teen may channel stress in a way that will prevent harmful activities such as binge drinking or prescription drug use.
Wherever your teen may be this break, we encourage you to keep in contact with them regularly. Check in to see how things are going and make
sure they understand your rules and expectations regarding alcohol use before they head out without you.
Thrive’s members just want to be sure all of Garden City’s youth stay safe and healthy this spring break! Thrive is here for you with more information and local resources, call us at 734-793-1868, or contact us here.
The Members of Thrive
Show You Care, Be Aware. Have a Safe and Happy Spring Break!
Dear Garden City Parents & Guardians,
Spring is here and high school graduation is right around the corner! Prom season has arrived and for the Class of 2018 this means gearing up for a night to remember. For decades prom night has been a sort of right-of-passage. Prom, for many teens, is a time to celebrate by often engaging in risky behaviors, specifically underage drinking and unsafe sex. These behaviors can potentially have life changing consequences including pregnancy, injury, jail time, and death. As a parent, you are responsible for keeping your teen safe and it is proven that you have the power to influence your teen’s decision making.
I know what you may be thinking… Prom is a party not to be missed. You went to prom and had a great time and you want your teen to have the same experience. I understand. However, the following are some well-known facts about Prom Night:
- Teen traffic deaths during prom season weekend are higher than at any other time of the year.
- According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, for the past several years during prom weekend, approximately 300 teens have died in alcohol-related car accidents.
- Also according to the NHTSA, one in three children under age 21 who died in alcohol-related accidents died during prom and graduation season.
- An American Medical Association study reported that 10% of parents believed it was appropriate and safe for underage teens to attend both prom and graduation parties where alcohol is served, if a parent is present.
- Most date rapes and sexual assaults against girls are alcohol and drug-related.
- A U.S. Department of Health and Human Services national survey reported 39% of high school senior boys considered it acceptable to force sex on a girl who is intoxicated by alcohol or high on drugs.
The following advice and tips, from teen expert Carleton Kendrick Ed.M., LCSW, may ease your prom anxieties, while helping you keep your kids as safe as possible: The Talk, The Connection and The Offer.
Begin your pre-prom talk with your children by emphasizing that you want them to have a wonderful, memorable prom. Keep that wish as a central focus throughout your discussion. They need to give you their complete itinerary for the evening, including whom they will be with, where they’ll be going before and after the prom and the phone numbers where you can contact them. “We’ll just be driving around,” is not an acceptable response.
Come to a fair decision on a curfew, based upon your children’s past level of responsibility in this area. Express your concerns about their health and safety and explain to them why prom night makes it understandably more difficult to make safe and smart decisions. Don’t be vague — discuss drinking, drug use, driving under the influence and sex. Ask them how they plan to keep safe and avoid actions they will regret. Role play some predictable dilemmas and decisions they may face. Reinforce your belief in their character and in their ability to act responsibly.
Regardless of how many times you have talked about the dangers of driving under the influence of alcohol and drugs, emphasize that these dangers are particularly high on prom night. Your teen cannot drink or take drugs and drive. If they’re not driving themselves, you must know who’ll be driving them. They must be driven by someone who has not and will not drink alcohol or take drugs. You need their promise on these rules. These rules are non-negotiable.
If your teen is being driven in a limo, speak directly with that limo company owner about his company’s alcohol and drug policies. Do business only with a company/owner who forbids the presence and consumption of alcohol and other drugs in his vehicles.
If your children are not returning home right after the prom, you need to be able to contact them at all times until they return home. You also need to be reachable at all times as well. There can be no doubt where your kids will be and with whom throughout the evening and morning. Post-prom, parent-child check-in calls make sense. Establish a few mandatory call-in times with your kids. Make sure they leave with a fully charged cell phone, thereby establishing a guaranteed connection.
If they’re going to other kids’ houses after the prom, check ahead of time with these children’s parents. You also have a right and a responsibility to ask if these parents are going to allow drinking in their homes. Many parents believe that as long as they “take keys” in a situation like this that underage drinking is permissible in their houses. Is that OK with you? Consumption of alcohol by anyone under the age of 21 is illegal regardless of the situation.
You must also decide whether you will allow your teen to attend after-prom parties where parents aren’t present. As for your teen spending the night with others in motel or hotel rooms, whether chaperoned or not… give that some serious, “get real” consideration. Do you trust your teen to make good decisions in unsupervised situations like these…Do you even want to take that chance? Be sure your teen understands what your concerns are and why you have made the decisions you have made.
Give your children the unconditional option of calling you at any time for help or advice. That includes an offer to pick them up at any time of day or night, with a promise not to shame or humiliate them in front of others, nor to condemn or shame them once you get them in the car or back home. There will be ample time to calmly, lovingly discuss the night’s events and the lessons learned. Assure them that you always welcome being part of their making smart and safe decisions. This unconditional offer of help and advice should be an outstanding offer throughout their lives.
THRIVE is committed to being available to you if you have any questions or concerns this prom season. Our office, located in the Maplewood Community Center, is open for you to walk-in and pick up resources or chat with one of our knowledgeable staff.
Show you Care, Be Aware and have a fun prom season!
THRIVE Members & Staff
Miss this deadline? Don’t worry, you can still enroll in health coverage for 2018. Make your appointment today by visiting here or calling 734-793-1873 and see if you qualify for a special enrollment period.
The mission of Our H.O.M.E. Pantry is to not only feed our community but to offer them other needed resources, understanding that each individual and family that comes to us for food is unique in their needs. Each person in the household receives 10 lbs. of food, with a 50 lbs. maximum per household. For example, a family of six would receive 50 lbs. of food each month. The pantry falls under the city’s Community Resources Department, which also offers pantry clients no cost state benefits application assistance in effort to get them enrolled in health insurance and/or other assistance programs.
OUR Home Pantry will distribute 44,000 pounds (22 tons) of food this year to our clients at a cost of approximately $25,000. The food is purchased from Gleaners and other area food stores. In addition, 97% of the money we spend goes to purchase food for our clients while the remaining 3% is used to purchase supplies. No monies are spent on administrative costs since our staff consists of all volunteers.
Donate your time? Email [email protected]
and get on our volunteer list.
The Garden City Community Coalition supports the Drug-Free Communities group renamed THRIVE. THRIVE is dedicated to improving the quality of life for all who live in Garden City, particularity youth, by reducing substance abuse and promoting lifestyles free from the abuse of alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs.
The members of THRIVE see the future of Garden City as a healthy and productive community where youth are empowered to thrive by living substance free.
Check out the Public Service Annoucement that the R.A.V.E. Club kids created for “Kick Butts Day”… “Don’t Smoke, It’s A Joke!”
In an effort to build public awareness and outreach for our organization and our cause, reducing youth substance abuse, the GCCC attempts to hold family friendly events. But as a small organization we aren’t capable of sustaining the cost to make these events possible.